Saturday, June 30, 2007

Roboho? Streetwalker chic?




Last week there was a lot of controversy regarding TMZ's comment describing Beyonce's outfit for her performance at the BET awards, as "roboho". TMZ posted the following comments:


"...From Beyonce's roboho performance getup to Eve's streetwalker chic, check out why it's time these artists hired new stylists and put the hip back into hip-hop!...


And since then blogger, Jasmyn Cannick has voiced her disapproval to anyone regarding women as "ho's" and I agree.


Although my ignorance tends to get the best of me at times, I honestly don't feel any woman should be called a “ho”, whether anyone feels justified or not. And with that said I'm going to work harder to stop using that word. But when you hear people getting referred as such when they have done nothing to deserve it, it gets me upset, White or Black. Obviously I'm going to be susceptible when it comes to black women being labeled as "ho’s” because this is just another demeaning attribute to add to the heaps that we have been subjected to and forced to endure.



I had this discussion with a best friend of mine and she felt that this particular situation wasn't worthy enough to raise hell over, as opposed to the Imus situation, only because TMZ is a gossip site and they can say what they want. It's convenient to look at this with a black and white perspective and just brush this off as a columnist doing what they do but we, specifically black women, can't always sit back and ignore the bigger picture. I feel that this should be addressed just as aggressively as the Imus situation only because I am looking at the long-term damages labeling has done to us over the years and there comes a point in time where we need to voice our displeasures and demand change. Why shouldn't this receive the same attention? The indemnities that it can cause are just the same, especially to their readers that are at a precarious age. They read this article and see two women that that they admire and making positive strides in the industry being referred to as "ho's" and "streetwalkers"...although TMZ referred to their attire as such, what does it say about the woman wearing it? The implications are there regardless...they may start to think that when they grow up to become respectable young women, it won't matter, they’ll still be “ho’s”, so why bother?

Just take a look at what an article like this elicited from its readers:


"Black people are idiots Black people can't dress A few of them are hot (ie. Rhianna) Most are not (ie. HIV-infected Bayonce) Black people: understand this: The more you complain about whites hating blacks, the less you will amount to in your lives. Can you honestly find ANY successful black people in the world? I can't. Why? They all complain. The Japanese were slaves too at once point. Want to know why they are some of the richest people in the world? They don't dwell on the past. So listen up you little oil rags: SHUT UP."---JEFF


"YOU "AFRICAN AMERICANS" CAN JUDGE WHITE PEOPLE BUT WE CANNOT EVEN SAY A WORD ABOUT YOU. YOUR REPRESENTING REVERSE RACISM AND THATS PATHETIC. DON'T TALK ABOUT THIS SLAVERY !@?#$ EITHER BECAUSE YOUR MOTHERLAND SOLD YOUR PEOPLE TO US. YOUR IN A FREE COUNTRY THAT WAS FOUNDED BY WHITE PEOPLE...YOUR LUCKY TO BE IN THIS COUNTRY BECAUSE YOU COULD BE LIVING BACK IN ETHIOPIA. NOT ONLY THAT BUT THE MAJORITY PEOPLE SUCKING THE WELFARE, MEDICAID AND ASSISTANCE PROGRAMS IN THIS COUNTRY SUCH AS FOOD STAMPS ARE AFRICAN AMERICANS!!! AT LEAST THE WET BACKS THAT COME FROM MEXICO KNOW HOW TO WORK THEIR ASS OF FOR THE FREEDOM THEY'RE STARVING FOR. ALL YOU PEOPLE KNOW HOW TO DO (FOR THE MOST PART) IS BITCH, WHINE, POP OUT KIDS AND SHOOT EACH OTHER. YEA....I PLAYED THE RACISM ROLE, BECAUSE YOUR DOING THE SAME F**KING THING. SO KISS MY WHITE #$!@?" ---WHITEGIRL

I'm not even going to comment on this ignorance but can you see what I'm saying? These are just examples of the damages an article such as this can (will) cause. And although TMZ does have a right to say what they want we have a right to react and disapprove.

Thursday, June 28, 2007

And the best dressed goes to...



Beyonce-killin' em in the Dolce & Gabanna


Eva Pigford- loving this look!



Solange-this one was a shocker because normally she looks a hot mess. I am so proud.




Rihanna-it's still hard for me to believe that this is the same Pon De Replay Rihanna.




Amerie-Not surprised she usually comes correct.





50 Cent- I don't know what it is but he was looking extra sexxy that night. I almost died when he stepped on the stage with the wifebeater on




Chris Brown-looking oh soo funky fresh!! Lovin' this look...too cute.





***Close but not quite***




Kelly Rowland-I loved this dress until I saw what was going on at the bottom. I'm not a big fan of whatever that is...



Ciara-Cute dress, just not on her. Something is off, I'm sorry.

Wednesday, June 27, 2007

I don't know what it is but....



...something doesn't sit right with me when it comes to Jennifer Hudson. Don't get me wrong, vocally, I feel that she's phenomenal but every time she gets up on that podium and begins her acceptance speech, I get this urge to scream "WE DON'T BELIEVE YOU"!!!


I feel she tries to come off humble but it's so contrived.
I see right through it and I don't like it one bit!

Snooze Alert!!!

Sooo, last night was the 7th Annual BET Awards and it was incredibly disappointing to say the least.



***The Pre-show: I was completely bored. Next...***


The award show opens up with an amazing performance by Jennifer Hudson and the one and only Jennifer Holiday singing "And I'm Telling You, I'm Not Going." Although I probably wouldn't have chosen to open the show with a ballad but whatever, it was still hot and one of the best performances of the night.


Monique and her girls hit the stage doing the damn thing, proving, yet again, that big girls can move just like skinny b*tches...I'm not mad...lol. This time they performed to Beyonce's-Deja Vu and ripped the stage. I love the way Monique celebrates her beauty and the beauty of black women of all shapes and sizes.

After the first award was presented I should have known better to have high expectations after the winner was announced. The first award of the night was Video of the Year and Gnarls Barkley-Crazy, Beyonce-Irreplaceable, Ciara-Like a Boy & I believe Akon feat. Snoop Dogg-I Wanna Love You were the nominees. The Winner: Beyonce-Irreplacable.
I was soo pissed because there was nothing special or creative about that video. Yes, the song is Hot! but Video of the Year? C'mon. And of course if anyone has anything to say about Beyonce, you're automatically deemed a hater but let's get serious for a second. Gnarls Barkley or Ciara should've taken that one home.

After that nonsense I was completely turned off and THOUGHT that it couldn't get worse. Boy was I wrong...
Best Actress went to Jennifer Hudson but it should've went to Chandra Wilson who plays Miranda Bailey on Grey's Anatomy.
Best Collaboration went to Luda feat. Mary-Runaway Love. Ok I get it, it's actually a song with lyrical content however I felt that Beyonce feat. Jay-Z-Upgrade You should've won that one.

Now....here's when it flat-lined...Best NEW ARTIST: Jennifer Hudson???!!! WTF??? The chick doesn't even have an album, let alone a single..why the HELL was she nominated to begin with? I guess they figured since she was nominated and won the Academy for Best Supporting Actress when she was in fact the Leading Actress in Dreamgirls, they felt they could get away with it....boooo...Corinne Bailey Rae was completely robbed.

***onto the highlights***


The heartfelt tribute to the late great Gerald Levert is the main reason why I can't trash this entire award show. Miss Patti Labelle's introduction was emotional enough but I was in tears when I heard Eddie Levert start to sing the roasts of all roasts "Wind Beneath My Wings." Glady's Knight, Yolanda Adams and Patti Labelle joined him on stage and it was incredible!
I was disappointed to see that there were a few people in the audience sitting throughout the performance. The nerve!

Beyonce's performance was good of course but there was no element of surprise. She did what was expected of her and that's wack. I was disappointed with Kelly's performance. She should've came stronger than that. I'm not sure if it was her or whether her mic wasn't functioning properly because I could barely hear her and as a result she sounded nervous. I hope it was the latter because with all of those years of experience there is really no excuse.

Don Cheadle's acceptance speech was one to remember as well. He personifies humble in it's purest form and I respect that about him. I respect him period. In my opinion he's beginning to fill the BIG shoes of Sidney Poitier.

The Diana Ross Tribute was amazing as well. I was too happy to see Erkyah Badu on stage doing what she does best. I loved it.

And last but certainly not least, seeing Public Enemy on stage for their tribute to James Brown was a classic performance. There couldn't have been a better way to close the show. They had everyone in attendance as well as the viewers at home feeling Black & Proud. Loved it!

Friday, June 15, 2007

Someone shoot me PLEASE!!!

I love music! Anyone who knows me, knows this about me. So when I hear bullsh*t on the radio it really gets to me. It's been forever since I devoted much of my time to listening to the radio because I got tired of the poison that was ringing in my ears but on my way to work I tune into Elvis Duran & the zMorning Zoo because it's hilarious or the Steve Harvy Show on WBLS. I can't stand Miss Jones so I don't bother with Hot97.
Anyway so lately, z100 has been playing a lot of hot mess and I just have to put it out there.

The Top 5 wack tracks out right now:

1.Fergie-Big Girls Don't Cry
Having to type that just made me nauseous. Bestfriend swears that this song will grow on me the way Rihanna's-Umbrella did but I highly doubt it. It's been two months and my position only stands stronger, I'm sorry. And I enjoyed Fergalicious and Glamourous, so it's really nothing personal. I just feel that she should've stuck to that formula instead of trying to smooth it out with that lame excuse for a ballad. The lyrics are lacking, seriously. I think that one line "...I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket..." and her struggle to hit those notes throughout the song, sealed the deal for me. ugh!

2. Kelly Clarkson-Never Again
This one was disappointing because I absolutely loved her last album, Breakaway, so when I heard that she had a new single out I was excited....only to free fall into a pool of disgust! Her futile attempt to create another hit like Since You've Been Gone, was embarrassing. I get that she wanted more creative freedom on this album but not on our expense, geez. She should've listened to Clive Davis's advice on this one.

3.Enrique Iglesias-Do you know? (The Ping Pong Song)
No comment

4.Elliot Yamin-Wait for you
Although vocally the song is good but it's just soooo cheesy!!!

5. Shakira & Beyonce-Beautiful Liar
Two artists that I love come together to make a track so I thought that it was safe to assume that it was going to be a hit...sike! I cannot stand this song. I personally feel that the video or the fact that its Beyonce & Shakira, is keeping this song in rotation but whatever. ugh! absolutely hate it!

After 43 years, justice is served!!







A jury on Thursday convicted reputed Klansman James Ford Seale of kidnapping and conspiracy in the 1964 deaths of two black teenagers in southwest Mississippi, grisly drownings that went unpunished before federal prosecutors re-examined the forgotten case.
Seale, 71, faces life in prison in the deaths of Charles Eddie Moore and Henry Hezekiah Dee. The 19-year-olds disappeared from Franklin County on May 2, 1964, and their bodies were found later in the Mississippi River.

Edwards testified that he and Seale belonged to the same Klan chapter, or "klavern," that was led by Seale's father. Seale has denied he belonged to the Klan.
Edwards testified that Dee and Moore were stuffed, alive, into the trunk of Seale's Volkswagen and driven to a farm. They were later tied up and driven across the Mississippi River into Louisiana, Edwards said, and Seale told him that Dee and Moore were attached to heavy weights and dumped alive into the river.

The killings of Moore and Dee are among several decades-old civil rights cases reopened by federal investigators. In February, federal officials announced they were reopening investigations into about a dozen such cases.-CNN


It's sad that it took so long for justice to be served for this appalling and reprehensible act of violence and hate. 43 years ago this poor excuse of a man was 28 years old. He had his freedom and had the opportunity to live a long, fruitful life and now at 71 he's finally being sent to jail for life...in other words judging by his appearance, life in prison will probably be 5 years. It's a shame. And what also remains unsettling is the fact that he was convicted of kidnapping and conspiracy but not murder?? Since they held Edwards testimony as truth then the fact that Seale attached the young boys to heavy weights and dumped them in the river should also be held at the same regard.
I'm not too mad though because I recognize that there is a Higher Power and justice in that aspect WILL be served! I'm also grateful that cases simliar to these are being reopened and if the sons of b*tches are still alive to be prosecuted, they will be.

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

A New Yorker at Heart, with an Island Soul



Allow me to take a moment to acknowledge my roots and celebrate the beauty of Haiti and those that represent it. For many years now, Haiti has become synonymous with the brutal violence and utter chaos that has swept the same island that was the first independent black republic and the only nation ever to form from a successful slave rebellion. Although I stand proud of the history, it’s heartbreaking to witness what’s going on today.

Thinking about it makes me too sad so let’s move on…

I received an email about a month ago about different people that have Haitian lineage and went on to do some research to see if it was true. I thought it would be nice to share since I am sure that many people aren’t aware of some of the contributions Haitians have made to the world. This by no means validates who I am or what I represent but I can’t deny that it feels good to simply know. Although the information that you find on the internet isn't 100% valid, I made sure to search on reliable websites...so if they're wrong then oh well...



My personal favorite, Sidney Poitier-Academy Award Winning Actor


According to Wikipedia Sidney's father was Bahamian of Haitian descent.

Gary Dourdan (real name Gary Durdin)-Actor (currently on CSI)

Garcelle Beauvais-Actress- best known for her supporting role on The Jaime Foxx Show



Jimmy Jean Louis-Actor-best known for his role on the show Heroes



Gabriel Casseus-Actor -appeared on Grey's Anatomy, CSI, Law & Order etc.



Vanessa A. Williams-Actress-best known for her role on the show Soul Food




W.E.B. Du Bois- civil rights activist, leader, Pan-Africanist, sociologist, educator, historian, writer, editor, poet, and scholar.



Michaƫlle Jean-Governor General of Canada


(This one was a shocker)-Alexandre Dumas-world renowned French writer *ex. of his work include The Count of Monte Cristo, The Three Musketeers, and The Man in the Iron Mask

According to Wikipedia his grandmother was Haitian.

Marie-Anna Murat-first journalist of Haitian origin to anchor a French language national newscast in Canada



Raoul Peck-Director/political activist- best known for directing the film Sometimes in April


Arnold Antonin-Director/Producer-Most heralded work are Courage of Women & The President has AIDS?





Marie Clotilde "Toto" Bissainthe-Singer/Actress/Songwriter-composer- as well as one of the founding members of the first African dramatic company in Paris.


Tyrone Edmond-model



Ben Quddus Philippe-MTV VJ


Yves Mondesir- better known as DJ Whoo Kid




Marvin Bernard-(better known as Tony Yayo)-Rapper/G-Unit member


Wyclef Jean-rapper/producer-member of The Fugees


Pras Michel--member of the Fugees


Usher Raymond-R&B singer/actor


Earl Simmons- better known as DMX-Rapper


Maurice Young-better known as Trick Daddy-Rapper


Samuel Dalembert-NBA Player





Joelle Jean-Fontaine-rising fashion designer-founder of Kreyol (boutique label)